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Me And Mum; Navigating Relationships

Mother’s clothes and shoes lay scattered all over her bedroom floor. A stench of desolation hung in the house. I asked father why he did it. He said it was the anger. Anger made him do it. I feared my 13-year-old sister would be scarred by the mess if she saw it. So I locked […]

The Havoc of Heartbreak

“What will you do with all this havoc, Eric?” I thought about it. For a moment there I was unsure what people are supposed to do with pain. She was curious to pick my mind. “I don’t know, Sarah. I’ve never thought about it that much. I wake up and wonder what I am still […]

Lessons to turning 33

I turned 33 in June, 2021. Here are the lessons I carry with me. Healing I was talking to a group of people recently telling them how incredibly alienating living a healthy life is in this constantly growing capitalist society. I remember a while back vibing women with whom we considered dating at some point, […]

Or You Can Undress Me right Now

“Or you can undress me right now.” “Girl, will I finish this today? I have a meeting in thirty minutes and this document has got to be ready.” “Come to mines tonight. There’s a corner of my mind I need you to sweep.” Sighs. “You snake, can I work?” “Only if you promise I’ll be […]

Creating Healthy Relationships

Introduction Lately I’ve been pondering over the oppressive laborious weightiness of creating healthy relationships in the world today. Anywhere. At the workplace, in school, at home, worship places, etc. It seems to me that when we come down to it, the unprecedented chaos, bangarang and bedlam the world’s bleeding from at this present moment stems […]